I’ve spoken about my father many times. He died young—much younger than I am now. His absence left a silence that shaped me. Later, my mother married a good man: a retired Air Force veteran and educator. He was a Christian, sincere and faithful, though not Catholic.
Toward the end of his life, he found a home in a non-denominational church led by a preacher who claimed both Baptist and Catholic roots. On the church’s website, it proclaimed: “Heaven and Hell are real places of eternal existence.” But in a recent livestream, that same preacher said Hell doesn’t exist—that it was a mistranslation.
I felt a quiet sorrow. Not because I wanted to argue, but because I recognized something deeper: sometimes, without guidance or direction—even the most passionate can drift from the right path and get lost. And others may follow.
Ironically, this same preacher also said that the simple path to being a Christian is to love God and love your neighbor. He’s right. It is about relationship. But without truth, even love can lose its shape. Relationship without compass becomes sentiment. Passion without anchor becomes confusion.
Scripture Speaks to the Drift
In Judges, the people of Israel abandon the God who rescued them. They chase after idols—not just breaking rules, but breaking relationship. In Psalm 106, we hear how they “mingled with the nations,” and their idols became “a snare.” They cried out in distress, and God saved them. But once the crisis passed, they forgot again.
In Matthew’s Gospel, a young man approaches Jesus. He’s kept the commandments. He’s done the right things. But he asks, “What do I still lack?” Jesus sees his heart and says: “Go, sell what you have… then come, follow me.” The man walks away sad. He wants eternal life—but not at the cost of his comfort.
This is the danger of half-hearted faith. It leaves us restless. It trades deep relationship for shallow religion. God doesn’t want our performance. He wants our heart.
Ignatian Truth: God in All Things
Ignatian spirituality reminds us: God is found in all things—even in our drifting. It invites us to ask: What keeps me from following? What am I afraid to lose?
The answer isn’t more rules. It’s more love. It’s the kind of love that says, “Come, follow me.” Not just once, but every day. In our choices. In our surrender.
In a world that’s constantly shifting, where truth feels negotiable and comfort is king, we need a compass. Scripture gives us one: Love God with all you are, and love your neighbor as yourself. That’s not just a command—it’s a way of life.
The Invitation Still Stands
So if you feel like you’ve drifted, you’re not alone. But you’re not lost. The invitation still stands: Come, follow me. Let go. Walk with God. And find your way home.
Prayer: Finding Our Way Home
Lord Jesus,
In a world of shifting truths and fading certainties,
be our compass.
Teach us to love You with all we are,
and to love our neighbor with Your mercy.
When comfort tempts us to settle,
stir our hearts again.
When we feel lost, remind us:
You are the way, the truth, and the life.
Lead us home—step by step,
in surrender, in love, in You.
Amen.